
2011...here at last!
This past year seemed to have gone by so fast but still couldn't end soon enough and left bittersweet feelings. It was a truly tough year (but one which we got through).
Last month I sent a lucky candle holder down a river in Bangkok in hopes that all my troubles would float away. And it began to...
I finally discovered the root cause to my woes, which was...me hoping and waiting for things to happen which never did. Hoping for people to make things right, hoping situations would improve (again by other people). I came to a sudden realization that I had the ability to make things right and improve situations on my own, as it is MY LIFE.
What a liberating feeling.
I had moments where I felt like I was drowning. And I have no doubt that I will feel that again, but at least I know I can swim and stop waiting for someone to rescue me.
I entered this new year just how I had wished, at peace.
So let me take this time to reflect on the good of 2010:
1. Most hilarious moments of 2010 (when I think about them I still laugh)
OUTDOOR hottub on my birthday and things hanging loowww
CHIKA trying to climb a tree during Hanami season
CHIKA singing and dancing in her sleep
HENRY saying "sumimasen....un beeru" to the waitress during his visit to Tokyo
GOING through security at McCarran Airport and watching Lena's tub of lotion get confiscated
YAKATBUNE bday celebration for Chika turned awry
HOOTERS Tokyo during a typhoon (on Halloween Day) - seven bottles of cava, countless wings, a bday celebration, the cleanest bathroom ever in Tokyo, the cordest beer, Hooters member card, an argument and never going back there as a group AGAIN.
HEARING about the abandoned jelly boobs
2. Unforgettable moments of 2010
JOINING GS
AMALIA was born
TOMATO nabe at my apartment
ALICE breaking her arm snowboarding (not a good memory, just an intense one)
HANAMI Season
GIRLS "Hangover" Trip to Vegas
BEING asked to be a Godmother
THE SOUND of nothing at the Bvlgari Resort in Bali at night
VISTING Nikko
JOGGING in Tokyo, Bali, London, Florence and Hua Hin
MY FIRST trip to Florence
OUR 1st Extended Family Reunion and Portrait in Thailand
FORGETTING Kendo's group bday gift in the taxi and having him call to find it
3. Lessons learned in 2010
JOGGING is awesome
RECOGNIZE what's bad for you and stay away (no you can't just have one...)
REMEMBER your own self worth
YOU'RE not too good for office politics (you're gonna have to bite the bullet)
I'M not as shy anymore
I LIKE RAW Japanese sea bass (suzuki) and yellowtail (hamachi or buri)
HUA HIN is a beautiful place
SCOTCH Whiskey is not just for old men (Macallan 12-yr)
US CITIZENS need a visa to visit Shanghai
I am sure I am missing things which should be on these lists...let me know if you can think of any. For now, I want to say thank you to my friends and family for helping me get through yet another year and wish everyone a happy and healthy 2011 ahead :)